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Should You Quit or Stay? A Decision Matrix That Respects Your Nervous System career clarity decision making nervous system overthinking readiness self trust transitions Sep 03, 2025

When you want to decide whether to quit or stay, use this simple approach. Score each path across six criteria, pick the higher score, then run one body check and one tiny test. Timebox the process to...

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Why You Keep Spinning (Even When You’re Self-Aware) coaching decision-making nervous system overthinking self-trust Aug 01, 2025

You’ve read the books.

You’ve journaled.
You’ve talked it out.
You know something needs to shift.

But you still can’t decide.

You loop through the same thoughts.
You ask for signs.
You go back to y...

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The Myth of the Perfect Decision clarity decision-making overthinking personal growth self-trust Jun 13, 2025

If you’ve been stuck circling the same choice for weeks (or months), you’re not alone.

This is one of the most common places clients land in:
“I just want to make the right decision.”
But behind that...

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The Real Reason You’re Overthinking (And How to Stop) decision-making nervous system overthinking self-trust May 09, 2025

You don’t have a decision-making problem.

You have an over-protective brain.

Overthinking isn’t just "bad habits" or "lack of confidence."
It’s your nervous system trying to keep you safe—by running...

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When Everything Looks Fine, But You Still Feel Stuck clarity cultural expectations life transitions overthinking self-trust Apr 25, 2025

“You’re doing great!”

You hear it often. From friends, coworkers, family.

They see your LinkedIn updates, your milestones, your hustle.
And on paper? They’re right.

But inside… you feel frozen.

Yo...

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3 Questions to Ask When You Don’t Know What You Want clarity coaching tools decision-making overthinking self-trust Apr 18, 2025

You’re stuck.

Not because you’re lazy. Not because you’re unmotivated.
But because you’re overthinking everything—and still don’t have an answer.

It’s one of the most frustrating places to be:
You k...

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