You finally land on a decision.

You get the insight.
You know what you need to do.

But instead of feeling light and clear, you feel… heavy.
Tender.
Wobbly.
Uncertain.

This catches a lot of people off guard.
We expect clarity to come with relief or excitement.
But sometimes clarity brings grief.
Sometimes it brings fear.
Sometimes it brings the quiet awareness that something has to change.

Here’s the truth: clarity isn’t always comfortable.

Sometimes, it asks us to face what we’ve been avoiding.
Sometimes, it confirms a truth we weren’t ready to admit.
And sometimes, it shows us the next step — without showing us what happens after that.

None of that means you’re doing it wrong.
It means you’re being honest.

Clarity is not always clean or energizing.

It’s often raw.
It can feel like a disorientation before the deeper alignment sets in.

That discomfort is part of the process.
It’s the stretch between who you’ve been and who you’re becoming.

So if clarity feels hard, try this:

• Let it be true without rushing into action.

• Let it live in your body without needing to explain it.

• Let it settle before you make it make sense.

There is wisdom in the pause.

Coaching can help you hold that in-between space.

Not to push through it, but to honor it.
To make room for both the knowing and the feeling.

You’re allowed to feel unsteady, even when you’re clear.

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